Hi! Today when I was going back from school, I was thinking about bullied students. Just a spontaneous thought, so I decided to mention it here, since I think it's quite serious problem all over the world. Why it happen so often? Why bullying people are actually doing it? What is the reason? What kind of feeling bullying other people can give them? Why kids these days are so cruel? I will share with you guys my opinion about it, and I hope you would like to share your opinion about it with me in comment section below. Feel free to read ;)
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Have you ever thought how bullied person feel like? Every year in every country a lot of students are bullied by their schoolmates. I bet you also know such a person. The person who could actually enjoy going to school very much, but behaviour of some of the students make school life look like a worst nightmare. I think regular student who never experienced bullying on themselves can't really judge it. But let’s try :D
There can be a lot of “great” reasons why people are bullying each other. Maybe someone have better grades than me? Maybe someone have bought newest iPhone and I envy them? Or maybe I'm bullying people to make my own self-esteem little higher? But... should I hurt people to make myself feel better? Don't really think so…
Do you want to have better grades? Study then. You want have newest iPhone, but maybe you don’t have money, the go get yourself a job, or just simply choose other phone which is also good enough. Bullying others to make myself feel better… non sense.
Those are just few of a lot of reasons why people are bullying others. But sometimes the bullying is very ridiculous for example: someone is fat, so that's “perfect” reason to laugh about it and be mean, isn't it? Well...not really. Why don't you think that maybe the person is sick and have to take a lot of medicines what made them fatter than average?
Anyway is a trend now, that every girl have to look like hanger and every guy have too look like he will explode soon because of muscles? No... of course not. We should respect everyone doesn't matter how they look like, what kind of phone they have or what car they are driving. The most important is their personality ;)
Another situation is when kids at school take money or lunch from younger or weaker students, because... actually why not? I wonder how all of those people would feel if someone would do such a things to them. Would they be still so confident? Would they feel good with it? I doubt it.
Ok, so I'm mentioning all the time bullies at schools, but it also happen at work right?
Mobbing or as some people know it as a workplace harassment also occurs very frequently. Situations when employer treat employees just as a cheap way to run buisness. And all those co-workers in huge corporations are just waiting for your fail. Long-term humiliation may negatively affect the mental health of the persecuted. Symptoms of workplace harassment are very similar to symptoms of bullying at school - frightening, Deliberately putting lies, rumors, deceit and intrigue is designed to exclude an individual from the group, intimidation and destruction, a violation of his dignity.
The victim starting to think irrational, being confused, he works or study in constant tension. They are having lower and lower self-esteem. In second stage victim start to feel physical pain like: headache, bellyache, insomnia, anxiety and depression. Sometimes it can even lead to epilepsy or other dangerous sicknesses.
So let’s think once again, is it worth to do it to others? What you think about bullying people? Have you notice such a situation in your environment? Let me know in a comments section below your opinion about this topic ;)
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